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Wait why are YOU taking the blame for this?!???!?
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I only took the blame initially because I was in shock and I thought that by apologising, it would be what she wanted to hear and that she would take me back.....absolutely crazy I know but it's been said now.
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You even made yourself seem like the bad person by saying you punched her in front of her parents instead of saying what actually happened which was you were using self defense, now it probably seems like everyone thinks you are a physically abusive boyfriend who punched his gf and she will probably turn the story around to make her look like the victim 100% and you fell right into that trap!
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I wasn't given a proper chance by my fiancé to explain to her parents what had happened because she chucked me out the house (again physically by pushing me) and I've not seen them to this day to explain because of this sh*tty 'space' rule she has imposed.
I know for a fact that she confided in her best friend about the fight and told her that I punched her!! What the actual fook! So her friend now thinks I'm a woman beater because of her lying, I'm really annoyed with her.
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She attacked YOU. You used SELF DEFENSE to get her OFF OF YOU. and now YOU'RE PROFUSELY APOLOGIZING TO HER?
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Again, I thought initially that's what she wanted to hear so that's why I apologised but I do regret that now.
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And Not only that, but she's now in the driver's seat calling all the shots in the relationship like "I'll call you in a few days when I'm ready, I can't forgive YOU?"
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You're right, she is totally using this situation now to her advantage and will stop at nothing to get what she wants and bring me down.
Why do you think she's saying SHE can't forgive ME? Is it a power/control thing?
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Remember that "madness" you saw in her eyes? Do you think that's somehow normal or healthy?? Do you think she will never do that to you again??
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No of course it was not healthy - it was also a rather 'determined' look in her eyes which scared me.
I can't be sure if she would or wouldn't do that to me again, can't risk it though.
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She sounds insane and dangerous and violent. Do you really want a future with that woman, and possibly children with someone like that?
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Definitely no. Would professional help be advisable or is she past being able to be helped?
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She sounds like the type of person who would end up on the news for killing her bf/husband in a jealous rage.
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Agreed, and I don't want to be a victim.