Not *in* one per se, but possibly getting into one... I never thought I'd do this, but on the other hand, I thought "why not?" I'll give it an honest chance and if it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out. At least I can't regret not trying.

I don't have any advice other than to say you should look at where your relationship is going. Are either one of you willing to relocate? If not, are both of you OK with a long term relationship that is long distance? (I mean longer than 3 years, as in indefinitely?) If the answer to both is no, then I would question the future of your relationship. I wouldn't even be talking to this new guy if I refused to relocate (he can't, but I'm not so tied down). I won't do a long term relationship that is indefinite, but for now, that's ok.

I'd love to hear what other people have to say as well. I wish you the best!