I was recently diagnosed with Asperger's in my 40s. During my research into this condition, I had the sudden realization that every single male in my family has Aspergers (grandpa, father, brother, myself, and nephews), but the girls does not.

I will not claim that my life was a rose garden, it definitely wasn't. I do, however, believe that if my condition had been diagnosed back in childhood and if I had gotten the help I needed back then, my life would have been much easier. This condition is not the end of the world and we can still shine in our own special ways.

I say have children. If it is a boy, then make sure you have him evaluated and then give him the support he need. As long as he have a support network to help him navigate life he will be fine.