Looking for advice on how to deal with SO during excessive anger episodes - lasting up to a week sometimes. In my face, follows me around house, yelling abuse at me in front of kids, incessant rcing thoughts . Start arguing over whats for dinner and it turns into "you don't love me..." etc. Not sure how to cope - logic obviously doesn't work, argueing back a big no-no, ignoring him inflames the situation....any advice would be welcomed.