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Originally Posted by tigerlily84
It seems like you are trying to understand her anger, or what caused her to reach that point where she resorted to violence.
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That is an important thing for me though, I feel I need to know what caused her to flip like that and I don't believe it's got anything to do with her gran because the problem there isn't that great enough to warrant someone flipping out.
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Originally Posted by tigerlily84
Honestly it doesn't matter, because there is never a legitimate reason for a person to put their hands on you like that.
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Normally she is reasonable person who would talk about things that are bothering her (although she has been known to bottle things up) & we would sort any issues out verbally & in a quick way.
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Originally Posted by tigerlily84
You were defending yourself, and she is MANIPULATING the hell out of you to take responsibility for her actions. You didn't cause this. She did.
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I want to be able to make her see that I did not cause this at all but I suppose that would be pointless because people like her never change?
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Originally Posted by tigerlily84
You defended yourself the way that anyone would. So keep using your sense of self-preservation and get out of this relationship.
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I can't understand someone who loved me as much as she said would hurt someone like that, you just never do that to anyone, least of all the person you love the most.
She hasn't even cried once over it but I did - she was just cold and motionless.