I was being sarcastic. Being a battered woman myself, I recognize a lot of your fears and doubts.

Don't believe you are to blame for the altercation. Don't become her scapegoat. Don't get in up to your armpits with trying to help or cure your fiancée. Don't think you can somehow save her.

She has an illness. We don't know what it is. She has to recognize that and want to change in order to get help. You cannot "love her back to health."

You have invested a lot of time and feelings in this relationship, but you are not required to stick around and continue to be mistreated because you love her. You are to be commended for recognizing her worth and wanting to help her, but she just won't be helped until she is damn good and ready. How many more years of mistreatment can you bear?

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