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Originally Posted by StressedMess
Don't believe you are to blame for the altercation. Don't become her scapegoat. Don't get in up to your armpits with trying to help or cure your fiancée. Don't think you can somehow save her.
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Looking back on the incident now, I can see just how badly she actually behaved and that my reaction to lashing out was simply what anyone right minded person would do to stop themselves from being in further danger.
To be honest, the more I think about her attitude and how she views the fight/me I am actually sickened by her behaviour and realise that she really isn't worth it.
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Originally Posted by StressedMess
She has an illness. We don't know what it is. She has to recognize that and want to change in order to get help. You cannot "love her back to health."
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I suspect it may be Bipolar Disorder that she may be suffering from?
Of course, she has to want to change in order to get better, that's the first step to recognising you need to do something about it.
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Originally Posted by StressedMess
You have invested a lot of time and feelings in this relationship, but you are not required to stick around and continue to be mistreated because you love her.
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I have given her plenty of ample time/space to reflect on the situation and realise her actions but nothing has changed, she is still as vindictive and stubborn as the say it happened - it's shocking actually.
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Originally Posted by StressedMess
You are to be commended for recognizing her worth and wanting to help her, but she just won't be helped until she is damn good and ready. How many more years of mistreatment can you bear?
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I don't want any more years of mistreat to be honest and I have given her chance upon chance and offered to take her back but she's keeping me at arms length.
My patience is wearing off with her and she's damn lucky I even gave he a second chance, most people would run for the hills.