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Old Sep 17, 2014, 09:59 AM
Depressed-Fiance Depressed-Fiance is offline
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Lets say she apologized, got help for whatever issues she has, and was able to manage her "symptoms".
Yes and I understand that would take a bit of time.

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The ONE thing that can't be fixed is the fact that she's already LIED to all of her friends about you. It doesn't matter if things were wonderful between you and the girl, her friends will always (and I do mean always) think of you as a woman beater.
I know what you mean and no amount of 'justifying' myself to them would change their view of me because that ***** has brainwashed them into thinking I'm a woman beater.

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Would you really want to be with a woman who's friends all viewed you as a batterer? (Especially since she lied and told them that?....Even if she retracted her statement to them, the friends would just think that she's doing so to make you happy and not because its the truth.)
She can pick her friends but not her family (she viewed me as family even though we were only engaged.)

She really is ****ed up & it's kind of a form of defamation of character (slander) of me.