Personally, I'd just leave them to their silly little bullcrap. You've done wrong, so who cares what they think! If you have done something wrong, try to make it right. If they aren't man/woman enough to come to YOU with this problem, that's their problem, not yours. You are, after all, married to your husband, not all of his family. That's just what I'd be like, though... I'm kinda stubborn about these things. You could try visiting one of these people (bull by the horns bit) and simply straight-out asking what everyone has against you; if they block you off, then just ignore them.