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Originally Posted by Depressed-Fiance
That's all it could take to help her.
But the difficult part is getting herself to recognise that she has a problem.
I wish so much that she would do something about it and I really want to help her because I still love her despite what she did to me.
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I used to say that all the time about my ex. If he'd only this....if he only that. Wishful thinking on my part, despite knowing there's help to regain health.
Even if he did, the dynamics of the marriage were set in stone.
Was better to address my reasons and excuses and my self and my role, than to try and fix/rescue/force to see the light.
It's a bit co dep, or so many attest to...
Wish you well in your choices.