fwiw, Unless there's abuse going on, I don't think it's a mistake to keep exploring with the same therapist. It does become more difficult to switch, though, because of the investment of time and emotion.

Maybe one thing to ask yourself is if this is a healthy discomfort or the repeat of an unhealthy relationship pattern. Even if it's the latter, it could be a result of your perception that needs to be worked out, and not the relationship itself, but that would be the work of therapy.

It's a really difficult thing to sort through. Whatever the outcome, the things you learn about yourself through it are what's most helpful.

I've certainly had my issues with therapists. Often, it was my own stuff I was projecting. Sometimes, it was due to their lack of skill or experience. The only way to know for sure is to take the chance on being honest and seeing how she responds. Any push back or negativity or defensiveness would be concerning. On the other hand, if she has an open mind and a willingness to wonder along with you what your reaction is about....that's a good sign, in my opinion. It's all about what you take away from the experience. Hopefully, with more understanding about yourself.