so you have two things going on here. you have the emotional abuse and you have the mood swings due to bipolar. neither one is likely to change. how long do you want to live this way? are you happy living this way? my advice is to go to some groups at a domestic violence shelter so you can educate yourself on the cycle of abuse. get some strength to decide if that is what you really want to live with. put together a pro/con list on the relationship. which side has more? really think about what is going to bring you happiness. take care