I'm going to get right down to brass tacks. You're hurting now and very confused. What do people often do when they're hurting real bad? They get drunk and seek companionship. That started this whole merry-go-round.

If you want there to be any hope of getting back with the girl you love, I strongly suggest that you do two things. 1. Stay sober. 2. Stay celibate while you figure things out.

You're on a break, and people do party and go out with others when they're on a break, but it was drinking and cheating that got you in trouble in the first place.

If you're not willing to make those two sacrifices while this thing shakes out, then there's no hope for saving this relationship at all.

I wish you the best and hope you and your girlfriend can figure this out. Take care.