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Old Sep 17, 2014, 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted by HazelGirl View Post
It seems like it is moving towards inappropriate. It sends up warning flags.

But the biggest indicator that it's inappropriate? You're asking whether it is. If you need to ask, especially when it comes to physical touch in therapy, it probably is.
This.

I think any hugs should be initiated by the client. The therapist could potentially ask "do want a hug?" or "do you feel ok about getting a hug?" but IMHO should not be asking for a hug (ie "can I have a hug?" isn't kosher from a T). I don't think that a massage is ever appropriate.
Thanks for this!
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