I hear ya.....its rough when the other person has a lot of issues. I know for me, my fears can rear their ugly heads, and they are doing so today. I'm getting insecure and even asked Brian if he's still happy, to which he answered "of course". My brain tells me crazy things and brings up old fears from the past, so I totally understand where your guy is coming from.

I'm thinking I better voice to Brian that I'm having old fears crop up, since we agreed to be honest about everything. I hope you guy continues to tell you where he's coming from and how he's feeling!