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Old Sep 17, 2014, 08:10 PM
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I've hugged T's but your situation bothers me because
1. He knows you are a CSA survivor
2. He seems to be initiating all contact
3. To me a massage is outside the norm
4. He has not discussed what it means to be touched for you. Has he even asked if you like it???

Hugs can be appropriate in therapy but your T is making me uncomfortable!!
Thanks for this!
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