Just a small thing, but maybe one less aggravation?

Is your daughter old enough to brush her own hair? Or, she can brush it first and if she does a good job, tell her you won't need to touch it. That way it is her responsibility, and up to her whether you get involved or not.

There is always spray in detangler! http://www.amazon.com/Suave-Double-D...dp/B0002FCDHQ#