Hi stingray and welcome to PC!

I'm so sorry to hear about your parents. It's very unsettling to see our parents aging and acting in ways that are not the norm. Has your dad been to see his doctor for a check up recently? If not, it may be time for one. He may be experiencing some problems that the doctor can diagnose and help treat.

I wish you good luck in finding help with your situation stingray. Feel free to pm me anytime if you would like to talk.

Hugssss
J