Uhm, do you realize that its not YOU who is making this about money, it is HIM! He is being a master manipulator by turning HIS money issues around on you, and its working because now you feel guilty!

Its sad, but yes, you always have to be looking out for number one. If he is dragging you down, why stay with him? Are you willing to have your credit ruined, possibly be evicted, and have no savings all because of this jerk? Heck no! Love is important, blah, blah, blah, but its those extra things that truly decided if a couple is truly compatible---money being one of those extra things.

Unless you want to be a sugar mama for life, jump ship now. This has nothing to do with love, and yes, he is being emotionally manipulative rather than taking responsibility for himself.