my current relationship is one of the most difficult I've ever had. So, I have decided to break up and move on. He beg me to reconsider and I decided to give him a chance. Things have improved since then.
However, he started planning Xmas and New Year and he wants us to spend it with his family.
They aren't bad people, but I don't like to be among them.
Last time we went together with them I was very annoyed and bored. They organize everything their way. Everyday is the same thing. They spend the morning watching CNN, go to Starbucks and the rest of the day going to mall and grocery. At night they cook and we go to sleep. They speak a different language which I don't understand all the time, I'm totally left off the conversation and they don't make any effort to put me in.
Besides that, his bro is a real spoiled brat, he's 50 and rich, and he thinks he's master of universe. Everything has to be his way, and focused on his needs. The whole family are like puppies licking ... I'm sick of this. I don't wanna go and spend holidays with them. I have no parents and I honestly would rather spend it alone. How can I tell him that I don't wanna go without hurting his feelings.