They sound like abusive bullies to me, pure and simple. They sound like they have big issues themselves and are trying to hurt you to make themselves feel better. I have had people like that in my life, and I threw them away, like the rubbish they are I like wisewoman's post, please take care of you,

I am sorry if this post comes over as angry. People like that do in fact make me very angry. Please take some action so that things can get better for you.

Love,
Fuzzy