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Originally Posted by tigergirl
sounds like LCM meant it in a much lighter context (to go with the lighthearted conversation you were having) than you were taking it; but it struck a nerve and bought up a lot of old feelings for you connecting to needing to earn love
sadly for many of us, this is what we were taught and what we've experienced  |
The conversation got heavy though afterwards. It wasn't the same lighthearted conversation. I think she meant that now she felt the urge to hug me. Which is okay but she needs to be more consistent with that. I feel very accepted than rejected with the way touch in the relationship is going right now. I hope I was clear that this is a real problem. Maybe I need to tell her how it's messing with me a little more.