I am a 28 year old male, and I have had this issue since I first started having sex. I have a very hard time having an orgasm, especially through intercourse. I have been married and divorced and while this was not the only factor for the divorce, it definitely put more of a strain on it that did not need to be there.

I've been dating for several years now and had different sexual partners and found that I still have the same problem. It is just damn hard to have an orgasm. I can achieve one, but only really through oral or with the hand. I have tried everything I can think of and now turning to help on the web. Maybe someone with more experience with this issue.

I am very open, maybe because this is mostly anonymous, but I want help. I will answer any question to the best of my ability. Can anyone help?