H used sarcasm to put me down.....which he had no right to do because I was a college grad & an equal.....I started returning the sarcasm but I hated what it was making me into.....so I told him to either stop the sarcasm or GET OUT because I didn't want anything more to do with him if that was the way he chose to act. He didn't start it until AFTER we were married.

It took about a year of catching him every time he opened his mouth & put down sarcasm came out of his mouth that if finally lessened.....but honestly.....I HATE SARCASM & NEVER use it on anyone for any reason.