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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I probably would have declared my space at the disinvite to the party. Maybe she doesn't want you happy and telling stories is a way to hold you back?
Maybe she's a pathological liar?
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This is the same thought I've been having while going through this thread. I don't see it as coincidence that she is single and has been recommending these guys to you but always 'discovers' something 'wrong' with them to make you turn around.
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Originally Posted by Brasucasulu
She was trying to get over her break up, her lover left her like 4 years ago. She was very sad and a little obessesed with the man.
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Originally Posted by Brasucasulu
I really don't know why she comes up with all this ideas! She also showed me a picture on her ex's bbm profile...My friend sometimes gets very upset because she can't understand why her relationship failed. I tried to help but it isn't easy.
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Originally Posted by Brasucasulu
I am afraid that she is a perturbed soul. Although she hides behind a zen and holistic mask.
She's has been doing some kind of healing session by Skype with a lady, I was there when she had some of the sessions. She seems quite obsessed with her ex. I don't even know if they really had a relationship. I think that it was more a sexual story than anything else.
I heard when she was saying that he was starting to feel better with herself, and that she thinks she was starting to accept that her "relationship" is over, and trying not to look for an answer why it didn't work. I felt really sorry for her  |
From all you've said here this woman seems really bizarre and gives no clear, direct explanations for her behavior. You suspect she hasn't actually had a real relationship with this ex...well, if she isn't able to give details and be consistent in those details while actually making sense, it's very likely what you suspect is true.
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Originally Posted by Brasucasulu
That's also a possible. Although I asked her how she got this information. She said she has no prove and she didn't have any diagnosis, but she remembers that he got very sick 10 years ago, and that he went abroad for treatment. She said he lost a lot of weight and started a healthy life style,since than. HIV is quite common here where we live.
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Very strange that her only explanation for this has no solid proof; her telling you that she doesn't have any
does not directly answer your original question as to where she got this idea from.
As for the thing with the party, it's possible that she said all of that to make you feel better about what she did...just a thought. As for the other women who were there, have you been able to talk to them to see how it
really went and if what she has been telling you matches what they say?
If I knew this woman I wouldn't trust her one bit. She seems to have a motive...and it clearly isn't a good one...