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Old Sep 19, 2014, 06:46 AM
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Originally Posted by feralkittymom View Post
More beneficial because it was a response to your engaging in difficult talk. So you explored some of the feelings that were there, rather than want a hug to calm/distract/avoid talking about difficult feelings. Her use of the word, "deserve" I think was ill-chosen because it made it seem like the hug was a response to you as a person, rather than to your responsive behavior during this time.

I guess a hug to calm me down and make me feel better as opposed to a hug to just help me feel closer to her.