My T gives me a long, close hug at the end of every session. No matter what the session was about....it could be lighthearted, or it could be very emotional. She hugs me anyway. Guess I'm thankful I don't need to "deserve" it. Her hugs help me realize she cares....and its a calming way to send me back off into the world after a session. So if I get no other hugs, I get a great one from her twice a week. I'm very grateful for them. They "recharge" me before sending me on my way. If I was under the impression I had to "deserve" one to get it, that would be hurtful to me. Hugs shouldn't need to have strings attached.