We just talked about it. She said she's okay with it but she isn't okay with him being in the house during bath time, pajama time or "scar time" (she has abuse scars that I have to put cream on that are in some sensitive places). So we agreed we would do these things when he went to pick up dinner. This is way earlier than normal but she said she is okay with that and just doesn't want him here when she has to be naked. She also asked if she's getting punished if he can go In another room and if at bed time he can stay downstairs while I lay down with her. I don't think any of these things are unreasonable and am more than willing to make them happen for her.