I don't think it is selfish at all. My daughter is 21 now and I feel relief that she is doing good and made it through difficult times.
My brother and his wife are having the empty nest syndrome big time. They are trying to find different roles in life since the kids are gone but they struggle with it.
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The "paradox" is only a conflict between reality and your feeling of what reality "ought to be." -- Richard Feynman
Major Depressive Disorder
Anxiety Disorder with some paranoid delusions thrown in for fun.
Recovering Alcoholic and Addict
Possibly on low end of bi polar spectrum...trying to decide.
Male, 50
Fetzima 80mg
Lamictal 100mg
Remeron 30mg for sleep
Klonopin .5mg twice a day, cutting this back
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