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Originally Posted by BlessedRhiannon
Yes, emotions are hard and I'm sorry you're struggling with them.
Just from my own observations - the clingy part seems to come out when I feel acceptance and validation from my T. It's not something I've had much of, and something I've always craved, so when I feel that acceptance and validation, I just want to hold on to the feelings and not let go...which seems to translate in to being clingy with T.
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Maybe that's the case for me. I don't know for sure, because I can't seem to connect the clinginess to anything else, but I may just be unaware of the connection (it's difficult to explain, but I can normally tell where certain emotions are coming from and the connections between them that my brain is making, but with the clinginess, it seems to just be floating out there by itself). I know I haven't received a lot of acceptance or validation, and I do crave that. But I got it, and I don't have anything else to say that needs to be validated at this point. I'm not sure why it's coming out so strongly.