This is the same thought I've been having while going through this thread. I don't see it as coincidence that she is single and has been recommending these guys to you but always 'discovers' something 'wrong' with them to make you turn around.





From all you've said here this woman seems really bizarre and gives no clear, direct explanations for her behavior. You suspect she hasn't actually had a real relationship with this ex...well, if she isn't able to give details and be consistent in those details while actually making sense, it's very likely what you suspect is true.


Very strange that her only explanation for this has no solid proof; her telling you that she doesn't have any does not directly answer your original question as to where she got this idea from.

As for the thing with the party, it's possible that she said all of that to make you feel better about what she did...just a thought. As for the other women who were there, have you been able to talk to them to see how it really went and if what she has been telling you matches what they say? If I knew this woman I wouldn't trust her one bit. She seems to have a motive...and it clearly isn't a good one...