I can so relate. I'm trying to break free of an emotionally abusive relationship. It really does a number on a person, especially when dealing with all the "other" issues in life. In deciding it's over and trying to make this happen - I have started a downhill spiral that I am hoping will soon subside. I go from crying relentlessly (how embarrassing for someone to see that) to feeling nothing at all. Numb.

I know you just wanted to get this off your chest - but I can so relate to what you are going through mentally.