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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
English isn't a foreign language here, so his family is just plain rude to speak what I'm assuming is Afrikaans throughout your entire visit!! Even if its not their home language it's their official second language as its mandatory to master it at school...
Why you're allowing this racist rude man to emotionally blackmail u into staying with him is completely beyond me, he doesn't deserve the time of day.
For all you know they gossip about you the whole time you're in their midst 
You couldn't PAY me to go if I were in your shoes, and that's saying alot because I'm broke!
Ps. Maybe u should leave ur phones voice recorder on while u visit and I'll translate for you just incase...  |
Thank you! Yeah! You guys are right. I am also growing apart after all that. Soon I'm going to my hometown for vacation and I'm looking for a job there. I have a couple of offers so far.
I would be really upset if they're gossiping about me. I don't think they are, but everything is possible.
I just have this as a total lack of respect. I also speak Portuguese and Spanish, but even if I had the chance I wouldn't let anyone else put of conversation. It is rude.
I would definitely not going to spend my holidays with them. Last time I spent a lot of money and ended up spending two boring weeks going to the mall and listening to a conversation that I don't understand. He and his sis stated asking me questions and once I responded they laughed and talked in their language again. I got fuming and told them that they were very rude and bullies. They then stopped.
I love other cultures and don't make difference of people, that's why I cannot deal with them.
They came to my apartment one day, and as I went to the bathroom his dad started opening my fridge and cabinets.
And I don't thing it is any cultural stuff. I have very good friend from ZA and they're very polite.