I must apologise for stating my opinion.
I must apologise for being me, for having opinions, for being angry that yet another lovely person is in despair who could have been helped by good therapy, and who still could be!

it makes me sick

Horrible selfish fuzzy paws

(oh I just remembered, it was my father (and mother and stepmother) who repeatedly called me selfish. Naturally he wasn't the slightest bit selfish, just very Narcissistic....)(sorry about the sarcasm........)