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Originally Posted by hankster
"Why is that a bad thing?" is common t phraseology, which i personally think stinks. Isnt that encouraging back and white thinking, calling things good or bad?? Its a stupid lazy question and i hate it, and i hate any t who ever used it on me. It never got me anywhere, it just intimidated me.
Just sayin!  Hope you deal with it better than i did/do  |
I guess it didn't bother me because I've looked for any clue that it's ok. And I told her the next session that it's ok to feel close. But that was the silent session when she didn't talk. Should have picked another time to say something. Lol