hello all another update my surgery went well today it was a outpatient procedure and i am at home and comfortable so far today no pain which is remarkable i haven't evan touched the pain medication they sent me home with it seems to be a much smaller incision then last time stitches this time no staples i can sleep normally i had a nap earlier no problems should be a easy recovery i talked to my boss at work early er in the week he said my job is safe i figure they would have a hard time trying to train someone to do my job i have looked into the possibility of finding another job the market isn't that good here i would have to go through a temp agency if i were to go else not to mention it would be a large pay cut so i intend now to go back to my current employer if management thinks that i am a liability and try to get rid of me ill deal with it then as for dealing with my ex friend well i think the plan now is to just not speak to her any more i really have nothing left to say to her now like i have been i see now that i need to get to the point where she can't really disturb my peace of mind by trying to talking to me i have at least 6 weeks to alive my stress and physically recover a question for all of you what if she actually does admits to all of it at some point do i befriend her again or not ?