Yes. We did. The thing is we went to my therapist at the time. My therapist I thought was pretty fair, but did at times try to steer the conversation in directions that were constructively critical of my wife and said some things that my wife resented, and that has become this thing that comes up any time we talk about therapy now. Ugh... It is also a hard time for us financially for therapy, but we could make it work really... Maybe I should push us to go back to therapy, she'd go if I really pushed...

Has that worked for you?