You have just described every detail of what I am going through, and have been for over a decade. I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired. I can't work, be social, do extra fun things with my daughter because of my Lac of energy, motivation and of course my pain. I don't know what to do either. Therapy, counseling, mental health medication, non narcotic medication.. over 10 different brands and nothing helps. I really need help and answers too.