I'm really sorry to hear that he is treating you this way. You didn't go into great detail about what's going on but from what you've said I do get the impression that he is being manipulative. He's purposely trying to get a response out of you that he knows you will give...as to why I'm in no place to say...but I can see that it isn't healthy. It isn't fair for him to provoke you and blame you for feeling wronged since he won't at least talk the issues out. This part doesn't make sense to me Why would he not discuss what's going on only to be deliberately provocative and record your reactions... I apologize it's like 7a for me so I'm not giving you the best response I may come back to this later, more alert and able to give one I normally can and hopefully you get more replies Hope you're safe ok