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Oh there is lots of hope for you to change.
Love can be very hard to define. Often we mistake it for our own neediness or putting our identity in another person. The goal would be to be happy whether you are with them or not with them. Relationships can trigger all kinds of things once the honeymoon period is over. That can make it very difficult but it also makes for a good opportunity to work on those issues. Therapy, couples counseling, books on it. Two people can learn how to meet each others needs in a healthy way and heal.
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The "paradox" is only a conflict between reality and your feeling of what reality "ought to be." -- Richard Feynman
Major Depressive Disorder
Anxiety Disorder with some paranoid delusions thrown in for fun.
Recovering Alcoholic and Addict
Possibly on low end of bi polar spectrum...trying to decide.
Male, 50
Fetzima 80mg
Lamictal 100mg
Remeron 30mg for sleep
Klonopin .5mg twice a day, cutting this back
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