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Originally Posted by growlithing
Meaning it's good that I care when she hurts or good that she is able to hurt with me?
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I meant it's good that she cares about you, and if it keeps you safer, even if you are being better to yourself to not upset her, then that is also OK.
I hope you can internalize that caring, like, one day take it in and not want to self harm.