You deserve better than this. Let me say, too, that just because someone says he (or she) has depression, doesn't necessarily make it so. And depression is no excuse for neglect, abuse, or cruelty. What you are describing in your boyfriend (he's no friend, in my opinion) does not sound like depression. I thing you should take a break from this man and see if you don't find yourself in a more stable frame of mind, after the initial sorrow of breaking off from the relationship.