Yea man.. I have felt the same way but why the stink could we not ask about anything, past or present, and get a 100% honest and complete response? I don't understand the volumes of people here that abhor physical or emotional violence and yet give a girl a pass for lying or with-holding things that effect individual lives. And right you may be insecure, but who isn't... I wish I could lock my heart to everyone except the completely honest.... Unfortunately that'd be pretty boring and damn lonely in my case!!