I just don't see what she's directly lied about in the OPs post. I see the fact that she's chosen to not disclose information about her past. If anything, she's given him honest responses to things (such as saying that she found one of her exes unattractive, and that she finds some of the OPs friends to be attractive).

All of the "lies" that the OP seems to post about are her unwillingness to share her past.

Quite frankly, it's up to an individual to chose when and what to share from their past. Does it stink if someone doesn't tell you everything? Sure. But that's their perogative. She doesn't owe him anything about her past.

Yes, anyone can ASK about their partner's past, but sometimes it takes a while for someone to be comfortable sharing details. That's their own insecurities or what not. A respectful partner would allow their partner to share things on their own time and to accept them for who they are, as opposed to judging the entire relationship based on the partners past.