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Old Sep 20, 2014, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted by TryingStill View Post
Rationally, I know it's medieval to believe that penetration and male domination are everything. Also, I know that sex is something both of lovers make together, and that being a man and a good lover relies more on be emotionally open and tender and sweet and caring, and that it doesn't depend on penetration itself as much as it depends on kissing and caressing and hugging.
It is not medieval to believe that penetration and male domination are everything.

the ideas about penetration and male domination belong to 20th century feminism. The ideas are for the most part ridiculous and the sooner you drop them from you frame of mind altogether, the better for you. The ideas about kissing and caressing being more important than penetration also belong to 20th century feminism and also are misconceptions. There is no hierarchy of what is more or less important. The sooner you start living your own life and not enacting other people's ideas, some more ridiculous than others, the better for you and your female partners.