Lying I get, I myself abhor dishonesty.



But how does her choosing to not disclose details of her past affect his individual life exactly?


Because apart from his insecurities it has no bearing on their current relationship and its only directly affecting him due to his pre-existing issues, which are not her cross to bear...



Unless your past carries the potential to bring diseases into your present, I don't see how or why details absolutely have to come up.


Others want to and do share freely, there's nothing wrong with that either, comes down to being an individual choice.


People have the right to privacy or does that not apply to relationships?


Also... You may want to think twice about comparing the general disdain for abusive relationships and this situation... Firstly apples and oranges, secondly, PLENTY survivors of abuse here, so a little consideration before making such statements is advised...