I agree with an earlier post that him shutting down and blocking you out could very well be a depressive mechanism of his own... HOWEVER, the whole recording thing and lines like "so everyone can see what you're like" is completely out of line. To me those actions show a total lack of love and respect. I'd have a hard time mustering any trust or respect after an incident like that.

Do you think he's worth working things out with? Maybe consider counseling for the both of you since the status quo seems to be making you both more ill. Good luck.