The first time I met my T, she was dressed in a sparkly baseball style cap wearing a scarf and tons of other accessories like rings and bracelets. She was wearing at least 3 necklaces that I could tell, maybe more - and it all matched. I was a bit leery I'll admit, but in spite of her 'colorful' appearance, I went back for a second session because I really liked the things she said. That was nearly a year ago, and now I find I look forward to seeing what color she chose to wear that day. She is an awesome T and a wonderful person, just a bit.....eccentric.

For the most part, I hate other women because my abuser was a woman, so it takes a lot for me to trust a woman T, which is why I will only see a woman T. My pdoc is a man, Egyptian in fact, and I prefer him simply because he is very conservative in his approach to my treatment and doesn't over medicate me like previous pdocs I've had in the past.