My first T was a female and I could not stand her.. She was more worried about her hair during our session always fooling with it and I was looking for help in my marriage I would tell her problem X and instead of solid advice I would get a " oh girl men always do this we must all ban together" Keep in mind she was 62 years old and dressed in "gypsy clothes" and overly done 20 something make up
I complained about her ( it was a pdoc and T's dual practices.. I wound up meeting the manager of the facility and he has been my T for 3 years now Hes a "typical 60'ish looking man . My Pdoc is a typical 50ish looking man. They are both well groomed and clean.
Both give me honest advice and no silly Drama. Im happy with my team