Ok then.. There is a good point that is recognized here. Red panda bear says that I am sharing from my own point of view and from my personal experiences. She has come to understand that and exactly and that's a big bonus. Whatever is said on any post is indeed just that ..the individual problem as viewed and in the context of the writers personal experiences. Even the hostility or the insistence that some people have never done wrong when responding to another persons dilemma incites those emotions and ultimately the post tells us what they think cerebrally But also about their OWN areas of discord and prior life issues
Sometimes I get more out of the emotional reaction from somebody that has been run over rather that any advice that they may think would be helpful.